Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Why?
Well, I thought I had a few more months before Mazin would enter the WHY? phase. But suddenly, we're in it. It's his new favorite word. (Former fav: "No!") I have to say I prefer "why." He sort of seems to get what it means, because he says it at the appropriate times, but I also think he just likes the way the word sounds. It came right after he mastered "bye." I think he has also figured out that "why" triggers a stream of speech from his interlocutor, which feeds his insatiable desire for more language. That would also explain why he loves books so much right now. I try to read to him as much as I can, but I do have a "three reads" limit on all of his favorites. Once I've read it three times, we have to move on! The current favorite is Roar of a Snore, which was sent to us by Dolly Parton herself and features a tiny kitten who wakes up the whole neighborhood. It's cute and it rhymes, which Mazin really likes. What must it be like to be flooded with a barrage of language all the time? Actually, I know what it must be like. It must be like going to a foreign country and having to learn the language orally, without the aid of books or classes. Hey, that was my experience in Morocco! And it was exhausting. If I could have taken a daily nap, I would have. And I do believe I had more than one tantrum. I cried many times. And man, if I could have convinced someone to read to me simple books in Arabic with picture clues for hours at a time, that would have been heavenly. I would have learned a lot. They (the almighty "they") say that reading to your child is one of the most important things you can do. I don't know about that--there are plenty of cultures where reading is not valued, and those kids turn out okay. Probably any activity that provides gentle and repetitive exposure to language--and the full attention of a parent--is beneficial. It could be singing or storytelling. I will try to remember, as I read Roar of a Snore for the 100th time, that this is part of my job. I do pride myself on reading with great gusto and expression, no matter how many times I've heard the story...
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